Illness can be just as hard on the caregiver as the patient - sometimes even harder. Physician Esther Sternberg (The Balance Within: The Science of Connecting Health and Emotions), novelist Tommy Hays and author Gail Sheehy (currently at work on a new book about caregiving) discuss the need to care for yourself while you are caring for a loved one. Then, "The View" co-host Joy Behar explains how her late-blooming career helped make her the comfortable and confident woman she is today. Alix Kates Shulman, author of To Love What Is, talks about caring for her husband after the accident that changed their lives forever.